Category: Life

Have you?

Have you ever wondered what makes love so great it last a lifetime?

Have you ever wondered why there are people who stay together for a long period of time and still not getting tired of each other?

Have you ever wondered why some people can live on love alone and others cannot?

Have you ever wondered what makes a strong relationship?

Have you ever wondered why some people think they are not boyfriend or girlfriend material?

Have you ever wondered why people thought they are not intelligent enough?

Have you ever wondered what it feels like to be famous?

Have you ever wondered what it feels like to live in a different era?

Have you ever wondered why two people can’t be the same?

Have you ever wondered why some people can be contented with simple things and simple life while others cannot?

Have you ever wondered why lights are so beautiful?

Have you ever wondered why you have favorites?

Have you ever wondered why time passes by so quickly?


Have you ever wished you can turn back time?

Have you ever wish you were out of this world?

Have you ever wish you were somebody else?

Have you ever wish you were younger?

Have you ever wish that you have all the time in the world?

Have you ever wish that there are cure everything>

Have you ever wish you can do all the things you want?



Have you ever loved?

Have you lost loved?


Why is there jealousy? Why are their uncontentement?

Have you ever wondered why people cheat? Why do people break heart?

Why are those so willing to love get it hurt in return?

Why are there lazy people?

Why are there careless people?

Why are there righteous people…



Have you ever thought that today might be your last day?

Have you ever thought that lifer is unfair?

Have  you ever thought of playing in the snow, knowing that you are on a tropical country?

Have you ever thought of being a star?

Have you ever thought of ideas?

Have you ever thought of if you will be a good parent or not?

Have you ever thought of being the president?

Have you ever thought of dancing gracefully?

Have you ever thought of making a difference?

Have you thought of what will make you happy? And after achieving it, will you be contented?



Dindy’s cousin gave birth last August 8, 2011

Welcome to the real world Augeith Dominic, all your lolas and titas are so happy.

A week after, my dear friend Rapunzel, also gave birth to Julian Raphael

I can’t wait to see you dear..

The Quarter-Life Crisis

The Quarter-Life Crisis by unknown

It is when you stop going along with the crowd and start realizing that there are a lot of things about yourself that you didn’t know and may or may not like. You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because you barely know where you are now. You start realizing that people are selfish and that, maybe, those friends that you thought you were so close to aren’t exactly the greatest people you have ever met and the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones. What you do not realize is that they are realizing that too and are not really cold or catty or mean or insincere, but that they are as confused as you. You look at your job. It is not even close to what you thought you would be doing or maybe you are looking for one and realizing that you are going to have to start at the bottom and are scared. You miss the comforts of college, of groups, of socializing with the same people on a constant basis. But then you realize that maybe they weren’t so great after all. You are beginning to understand yourself and what you want and do not want. Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what others are doing and find yourself judging a bit more than usual because suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and add things to your list of what is acceptable and what is not. You are insecure and then secure. You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone and scared and confused. Suddenly change is the enemy and you try and cling on to the past with dear life but soon realize that the past is drifting further and further away and there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward. You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do such damage to you or you lay in bed and wonder why you can’t meet anyone decent enough to get to know better. You love someone but maybe love someone else too and cannot figure out why you are doing this because you are not a bad person. One night stands and random hook ups start to look cheap and getting wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic. You go through the same emotions and questions over and over and talk with your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make a decision. You worry about loans and money and the future and making a life for yourself and while wining the race would be great, right now you’d just like to be a contender! What you may not realize is that everyone reading this relates to it. We are in our best of times and our worst of times, trying as hard as we can to figure this whole thing out.

All meat lover to being a vegan

Lately, I can’t believe that i am actually hating the smell and the taste of meat. Am i gradually turning myself into being a vegan… I hope not…

Love always finds a reason


August 13, 2010 12:01am

Sometimes I think of me and you And every now and then I think we’ll never make it through We go through some crazy times And there are times I wonder if I’ll keep loving you But I always do Seems that love always finds a reason To keep me here believin’ When I feel our love is slipping away Seems that love always finds a reason To make me stay And even through the darkest night The feeling survives Seems that I can just look at you And I find the reason in your eyes I know sometimes you wish that you were free I know sometimes you wonder what you’re doing here with me But something keeps you by my side Through everything, through all the times we disagree You keep loving me Seems that love always a reason To keep me here believin’ When we feel our love is slipping away And it seems that love always a reason To make me stay And even through the darkest night The feeling survives And you know when you look at me You’ll find the reason in my eyes. Love always finds a reason To keep us here believin’ When we feel our love is slipping away Aren’t you glad that Love always finds a reason To make us stay And even through the darkest night The feeling survives. Love always finds a reason To keep me here believin’ When I feel our love is slipping away And it seems that love always finds a reason To make us stay And even through the darkest night The feeling survives And you know when you look at me You’ll find the reason in my eyes I find the reason I find the reason, .. I found the reason in your eyes…



Mar 09 2009, 05:42 AM

Though life may not always be as perfect as it is at this moment, I vow to always keep my love as pure as it is today. I promise to be there for you in your laughter and your tears, in your sickness and your health, in your comfort and your fears, in your poverty and your wealth. I know that our love is heaven sent, and I promise to be there for you for all your life, come what may.


Aug 13 2008, 02:56 PM Together, we can accomplish anything. Together, we will be better than we could be alone. Together, we will share our love with the world. Together, our love will grow into a bond too strong to break.


Aug 13 2008, 02:51 PM When you are sad, I will dry your tears. When you are scared, I will comfort your fears. When you are worried, I will give you hope. When you are confused, I will help you cope. And when you are lost, and can’t see the light, I will be your beacon, shining ever so bright. This is my oath; I pledge to the end.


Jul 13 2008, 01:53 PM “You want to know what happiness is? It’s waking up in the middle of the night for no reason, shifting under the blankets and feeling the heat of the person next to you. You turn around and see them in their most peaceful, innocent and vulnerable state. They breathe as though the weight of the world lays on anyone’s shoulder but their own. You smile, kiss their face in the most gentle manner so as not to wake them. You turn back around and involuntarily a grin forms on your own face. You feel an arm wrap around your waist, and you know it doesn’t get any better than this.”


Dec 28 2007, 01:22 AM Every time I look at you the world just melts away All my troubles all my fears dissolve in your affections You’ve seen me at my weakest but you take me as I am And when I fall you offer me a softer place to land You stay the course you hold the line you keep it all together You’re the one true thing I know I can believe in You’re all the things that I desire, you save me, you complete me You’re the one true thing I know I can believe I get mad so easy but you give me room to breathe No matter what I say or do ’cause you’re to good to fight about it Even when I have to push just to see how far you’ll go You wont stoop down to battle but you never turn to go Your love is just the antidote when nothing else will cure me There are times I cant decide when I cant tell up from down You make me feel less crazy when otherwise I’d drown But you pick me up and brush me off and tell me I’m OK Sometimes thats just what we need to get us through the day


Jan 16 2007, 03:26 PM i can’t imagine my life if i haven’t met you. we have experienced the ups and downs of life and i can say that were pretty handling everything well..Thank you for coming into my life…thanks for giving me all the most beautiful thing this world can offer..i love you so much


Sep 07 2004, 05:01 AM The girl of my dreams and and thoughts The master and ruler of my heart My sunshine during rainydays and My rain during sunshine. My stimulant and my downer The ice of my beer and The lemon of my Tequilla The lyrics and rhtym of my songs The reason behind my smile and The reason behind my tears The air that i breathe & THe blood running through my veins My conscience, my defender, my nbo.1 critic, my world,My lover, my love, my friend, my everything and MY LIFE. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH


Aug 22 2004, 09:52 AM I learned when you truly love someone, You can’t move on, You can turn away, But you won’t stay strong. …All it took was you. I learned when you try to accept the future, You can’t forget the past. You can find a new “love,” But it will seldom last. …All it took was you. I learned you can’t change your destiny, Just enjoy what it brings, And then you will see, There’s no other way, it was meant to be. …All it took was you. I learned love won’t just go away, It will never disappear, When you find true love, It gets stronger year after year. …All it took was you. I learned when you really care for someone, You will let them see your fears. You won’t feel ashamed of crying, They’ll comfort you through the tears. …All it took was you. I learned one person can make you so happy, They’re the one that makes you smile. The one you love so much, Can make it all worthwhile. …All it took was you. 😉

71st month

“I don’t pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you.”

One day I hopped in a taxi and we took off for the airport. We were driving in the right lane when suddenly a black car jumped out of a parking space right in front of us. My taxi driver slammed on his brakes, skidded, and missed the other car by just inches! The driver of the other car whipped his head around and started yelling at us. My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy. And I mean, he was really friendly.

So I asked, ‘Why did you just do that? This guy almost ruinedyour car and sent us to the hospital!’ This is when my taxi driver taught me what I now call, ‘The Law of the  Garbage Truck.’

He explained that many people are like garbage trucks. They run around full of garbage, full of frustration, full of anger, and full of disappointment. As their garbage piles up, they need a place to dump it and sometimes they’ll dump it on you. Don’t take it personally.

Just smile, wave, wish them well, and move on. Don’t take their garbage and spread it to other people at work, at home, or on the streets.

The bottom line is that successful people do not let garbage trucks take over their day. Life’s too short to wake up in the morning with regrets, so … Love the people who treat you right.   Pray for the ones who don’t. Life is ten percent what you make it and ninety percent how you take it! Have a blessed, garbage-free day!

My choice

October 29, 2007

Isn’t it funny that no matter how hard we try to seek approval and acceptance from the people around us, still we can’t have their side. Just how can we convince them that what we have is special , When they don’t even want to believe that we  are real. That we truly exist. That there is nothing wrong with us. That we are not possessed with anything. We are what we wanted to be. But still we are your classmate, your sister, your friend, your grand daughter, your cousin, your niece and your daughter.  How can one be so blind to things and evidences that is right in front of her. Ignoring and denying will not make any sense for sooner or later facts should be accepted. Changes should be done. Holding back would not be helpful at all. Reality is reality. And you cant change it by simply telling us what is acceptable and normal. For standards are just made by people who dont have a vivid idea on  living and loving. Idealistic people chooses to be right than to be happy(not everyone ). What is the sense of living in democracy if everything is dictated to you. Democracy and Freedom, this is our choice, our life, our happines



December 20, 2007

Sometimes i feel so lucky to have everything i ever wanted, every support i ever needed, and every love i deserve. I admit i’ve never been a good daughter, i usually have less time for them but only in the aspect..they are and they will always be the most important part of my being. Though we rarely see each  other, i still feel their unconditional love..The concern and the support they have for me to all the things i ever wanna do…except that they say…that i have to much things on my list…that my lifetime couldn’t do it all…But still no matter how impossible things are, i know they want me to be happy..and they are willing to support me, for love…

When i made a choice of what life to live in, a lot of people disagree maybe not through the words they utter , but with their action u know they want u to change.. This includes both families that we belong in… u feel that u are accepted as their child as a friend as a classmate but never a partner..We’ve been through difficult times in asking for acceptance. We learned to be brave inspite of all the trials, the hearthache and pain of being different.But i think patience really paid well..slowly…i feel that things are getting much better  now…I am now being considered for family things…How is that?heheheh.. i feel really good about this…and this is one of best gifts that i recieved.


Im a moody, hard headed stubborn lass. Yes i am. I am aware of that..i do not need to pretend that i am something else im not, i do what i want , i can swing my mood no matter how many times i want to. and as long as i want to… this is my attitude that a lot of people may dislike about me…but for dy it is something she makes fun of. she always say ” Bakit ba ang sungit mo e wla naman akong gingawa sayo?” then i would reply ” Wla nga! e ganon tlga e” masungit kahit wala nman dapat sungitan” Then she would laugh and say ” Ay! aware ka Pala Maybe she is already used to this attitude of mine…She had learned to love it even it’s not desirable at all. I know it’s not funny all the im trying to do my best to minimize it,,hahhaha..i hope i could..i hope..


January 8, 2008

someone sent me this tru e-mail…(thanks jessie )

i believe that there is no such thing as perfect relationship..because if there is…the world would be so pleasant that human would no longer be interesting…hehhe..

below email is really helpful…i think..i haven’t tried

i just thought this is a nice thing to share….so i posted it..posting and doing are two different things..just like saying and doing…harharar

secret to a long lasting realtionship

1. TALK. Always in a pleasant tones. No shouting or swearing at each
other. Speak only positive words with gentleness and kindness.
Communicate daily. This is the highest and most caring form of

2. WALK TOGETHER more. Take 30 minutes a day. To exercise, Communicate,
release emotions, share ideas, goals, and to clear up any
misunderstandings. It’s okay to hold hands, too!

3. Do NEW and DIFFERENT ACTIVITIES together. Enjoy a new restaurant, a
different dish, a concert, a unique vacation, attend class to
get her something exciting both of you can plan and look forward to.
Learn together and you’ll be happier.

4. Give each other GIFTS often. Like a magazine subscription, a special
book, a warm bath and massage, flowers, surprise experiences,
favorite foods, and the many other special things your mate would
enjoy and get excited about.

5. Write LOVE NOTES. Hide them around the home — in clothing pockets,
in the kitchen drawer and secret places. Send some to his or her
working place. Write a passionate love letter. Express your love in
writing on exquisite stationery. Attach a gift certificate or a crisp $100
or P1000 bill. Use your imagination and make it a fun surprise.
And do it often!

6. DO NOT CRITICIZE, CONDEMN or COMPLAIN! This is a NO-NO. Only praises.
Acknowledge the goodness in each other. There is no place for negativity
in a loving and lasting relationship ever! Your mate will do the right
thing — as you lead by example.

7. ACHIEVE and MAINTAIN your IDEAL figure. It is a gift to yourself and
your mate. A healthy and attractive body also promotes a healthy

8. Allow your partner to be RESPONSIBLE for his or her life. He or she
has the right to determine his or her own reality and destiny.
Always respect that choice. Both of you can live your lives in your own
way harmoniously. Treasure each other’s differences. Do your very best to
make life easier and more fun for your mate.

9. Grow TOGETHER. At the same speed and direction — by sharing similar
ideas and activities. This will bond you together even more while
building on fond memories. (People who don’t grow together will
complete their relationship and move on to lead separate lives. This is why
most people divorce.

10. DO NOT be POSSESSIVE. Don’t act as though you “own” your mate.
Support; encourage each other’s way of living and individual
interests. Be grateful in harmony.

11. TREASURE your TIME together. It could be your last. Look at it this
way and you’ll always appreciate each other even more. Have NO
reason for regrets. Spend time with each other doing all the things you
both love to do. Do it now! Tomorrow may not come. So together — plan now
for the best of the rest of your lives.

12. It is OKAY to DO whatever pleases BOTH of you. In private, there are
no limits on what you can do together with each other…as long
as both benefit and agree. Whatever other people think of what you
do or say is none of your business! So, go ahead experiment — and satisfy
other to the limits.

13. Be OPEN. To new ideas, experiences, and relationships. This is the
way for fun, growth and expansion in your lives. The more you
LEARN together…the happier you both will be. The past at every moment.
Live in the present. Plan for the future — together…and joyously!

14. Be FREE of resentments, anger, jealousy, hatred, and envy toward each
other. This will open both of you to even greater respect for each

15. Be thankful for your mate’s KINDNESS.

16. Eliminate arguing totally. Anywhere, anytime, especially while eating
or in bed. Each person has a right to his or her own opinion. Respect
each other ideas, philosophy, and outlook on life. Be a great listener!

7. SMILE and LAUGH with each other. A prescription for aliveness and
health. Don’t take yourself or your mate too seriously. Lighten up
and laugh more often. Remember your smiles are true gifts to each

18. Look into each other’s EYES often. See the love, truth, and beauty in
your mate. The more you look into each other’s eyes lovingly
— the more you will love each other more deeply! Do this daily.
It’s very powerful and fun!

19. TOUCH each other TENDERLY every day. Hug. Kiss. Caress. These are
wonderful ways to show caring and love. We ALL need it. More than we care
to admit!

20. Develop a HEALTHY LIFESTYLE. Good food promotes a healthier state of
mind for a more meaningful relationship. Eat lots of fruits,
vegetables, whole wheat, grains, hi-fiber, and low-fat,
low-calorie foods. Drink more water. Get more rest. Keep yourself cleansed,
nourished, and balanced.

21. Keep your home, car, kitchen, closets, and rooms simple, neat, clean
and organized. This will help promote a tranquil setting for
greater peace and happiness in your lives. It really works!
22. Dress your best. Be appropriate, neat, clean, and proud of your
appearance. How you look, especially in public — enhances your
mate’s choice and appearance, too!

23. SHARE in Financial Matters. If you are married, communicate with each
other on all your finances. If you have a family
business, be sure both are informed on profits, losses, expenses,
etc. Set your financial priorities together. This will help to strengthen
your relationship, which is built on trust and sharing. Enjoy building
your financial future together. This is important.

24. ACCEPT each other TOTALLY. Exactly the way both of you are. Do not
try to change each other’s uniqueness. Allow your mate to change
if and when he or she desires. This promotes everlasting peace.
Say, “I LOVE YOU”. Daily, many times. Especially when you wake up and
before you go to sleep. Say it for the rest of your lives together.
Never ever take love for granted. Express it verbally as well as
with action. We all need to hear that magical phrase. It reaffirms how we
feel at that moment. So, fill your lives with millions of
moments of love by saying: “I love you.”